HI ShantyAddicts..
How r u,beautiful people? Hope u guys are happy n in ♥..haha..yes..I'm wishing upon everybody that each and everyone of u is blessed with ♥
♥ is everything..♥ is the engine of this life..makes u smile,takes u up when ur down n shows u that with ♥ u face everything..
Duh..don't I sound like someone who's sooo in ♥? Yes? Well that's coz .. I AM!! Hahaha..and proudly to say so..to the world..on the top of my lung :)
Yes,gw baru aja bertunangan..dan selama proses pertunangan itu..its been a blizz for me..from the night he proposed to me..asked me to be his wife..how I cried of happines sampai lupa jawab...hahah..so he had to ask again..'Is that a yes??' Hahah silly me..saking shocknya..lupa kl blm jawab..so I said ' yessss...a million times yess' (masih bercucuran airmata hahaha..kaya di pilm2 getooo)
But I can tell u..there's nothing that can prepare u for this moment..maksd gw,kita pst uda pernah nonton di film2 banyak adegan melamar dan reaksi dr perempuannya kaget trus gimanaaa gitu..but when it happens to u..kayanya kita berusaha cari 'referensi' of how to react or to feel at that moment.. Mestinya kaya apa? But nooooo! When it happens to u...the world just froze!! It stoped n all I can hear is my heart going 'dag dig dug' and asking myself 'is this is? Is this the moment??' Then u hear the question again baru deh kerasa kaya tersadar..hey this is RRRREEAAALLY REAL !!! I mean REAL!! Happening! To me! Right Now! Hahaha
Anyway...that's all I can share with u about my precious moment..
But I do wanna share something else..
I dnt feel like I have to justify (menjelaskan/membela diri) diri gw dan hidup gw ke media atau ke siapapun.I don't need them to understand how I feel..if people wanna be happy for me,I'm happy..but if they wanna put me down and say bad things..well its their problem..not mine.. :)
No one can judge what ♥ means for someone! ♥ is ♥ ..♥ comes is may forms..many ways..malah kadang,it comes as a surprise that it just blows ur mind away...!! And u feel like ur floating in d sky...dan diiringi semua lagu cinta hahaha..gombal ya? Gw juga selalu ngerasa kaya gitu2 tuh gombal..tp skrng now that its happening to me..I have to be honest..it does feel that way!! u don't choose ♥..♥ chooses you! Dan kala cinta itu datang..don't be afraid to grab it ..embrace it..
Perbedaan..aaah..kenapa manusia selalu mempermasalahkan perbedaan?apa terlalu takut menghadapi sesuatu yg berbeda? Aneh,karena manusia pd dasarnya diciptakan berbeda beda...dr rambut,wajah,tangan,semuanya beda..apalagi agama,suku,ras,budaya..
Kalau semuanya sama,alangkah membosankannya dunia ini? Masa 1 globe dunia ini sama semua? God is more creative than that!! So kenapa kita mengkotakan manusia dng perbedaan itu? Bule atau ngga bule,putih,hitam,keriting,sipit,belo..hey,when u ♥ someone..none of those things matter!!
And when u ♥ someone,u accept them as they are..as a whole..masa lalu nya,masa sekarangnya,masa depannya..
Semua orang punya masa lalu..that's the nature of life.mengetahui dan menerima semua masa itu secara jujur dan utuh..now that's great ♥..cos u don't wanna ♥ someone n have things to hide..
I have nothing to hide about my past..all I know I've been through the up n down of life..gw membuat kesalahan,ya..pasti..manusia mana yg ga pernah salah..bur all that makes me the person I am today..dan jujur..I wouldn't change a single thing about my life! The good n the bad..
Begitu juga dng my other half...I take him..and I ♥ him as a whole..as a person that is so amazing that I got to know..and everyday I get to ♥ more n admire more (aduuuuh mulai berkaca2 niiii) he's the most loving,protective person ..and I'm happy n proud to be his wife..saya terima masa lalu nya,masa sekarangnya dan masa depannya yg saya ingin kita habiskan bersama sampai mati.
Kalau memang kita tdk bicara banyak soal siapa dia ..its simply because yg menjalani hubungan ini adalah hanya 2 orang...saya dan dia. Tidak ada perlunya kita mengumbar apapun kepada siapapun.he's a verry private person n I have to respect that.
Kalau utk bbrp pihak itu dianggap sbg 'merahasiakan sesuatu' saya anggap itu berasal dr orang2 yg berpikiran sempit.
Dan bila juga ini dilihat oleh bbrp pihak bahwa ada motivasi lain (selain pure rasa cinta) bahwa kami memilih satu sama lain..saya hanya bisa berpikir bahwa orang itu belum pernah jatuh cinta yg sebenar-benarnya.hahahha...
Cinta sebenar..menrt saya..tiddak kenal rumus..ngga ada aturan ..ngga kenal waktu..ngga kenal batasan..jd kalau ada yg mengkotakkan bahwa ini seharusnya begini..seharusnya begitu...mempermasalahkan masa lalu dan juga status...hahaha saya bener2 berharap that 1 day you'll fall in ♥ then u know all ur 'theories' are wrong!!
Cinta ngga kenal teori,ga kenal batas ruang dan waktu,bs terjadi dimana saja,kapan saja..wheather u ready or not..
And I thank my dearest God that He gave me that great ♥ at this stage of my life. Yes,I've been looking for it for years ..dan mungkin sempat berpikir..mungkin there's no such thing for me (makanya terciptalah lagu Mencari Cinta Sejati dan Untuk Siapa)
Tapi ternyata Semua akan indah pada Waktunya ...dan gw sangat bersyukur bahwa waktu yg diijinkan Tuhan utk datangnya cinta ini adalah sekarang.saat gw lebih siap,lebih dewasa,lebih sabar,lebih matang...
Honestly..kalau gw ngotot dan memaksakan cinta..I would've screwed it up long time ago..mungkin jg cinta nya blm dikasih Tuhan lbh awal karena Tuhan lihat gw belum siap..dan yg paling penting...saat gw siap..gw ditunjukan orang yg tepat.. :)
Inti dr semuanya..I believe..trully believe..that Everything Happens For a Reason...ngga ada yg namanya kebetulan..semua ada alasannya..its Faith..
Yg kita ber2 hadapi selama masa pacaran dan pertunangan tidak mudah.banyak halangan dan cobaan,perkataan orang dsb..tp it only makes us grow closer n stronger together..he's my rock..and I know no matter what happens he'll always be on my side.
I trully hope u all will find ur great ♥..it really is an amazing thing I believe there's ♥ for each n everyone..don't force ♥..and there's no other thing that matters..but L♥VE
I ♥ u all,ShantyAddicts..
Many many kisses
But I do wanna share something else..
I dnt feel like I have to justify (menjelaskan/membela diri) diri gw dan hidup gw ke media atau ke siapapun.I don't need them to understand how I feel..if people wanna be happy for me,I'm happy..but if they wanna put me down and say bad things..well its their problem..not mine.. :)
No one can judge what ♥ means for someone! ♥ is ♥ ..♥ comes is may forms..many ways..malah kadang,it comes as a surprise that it just blows ur mind away...!! And u feel like ur floating in d sky...dan diiringi semua lagu cinta hahaha..gombal ya? Gw juga selalu ngerasa kaya gitu2 tuh gombal..tp skrng now that its happening to me..I have to be honest..it does feel that way!! u don't choose ♥..♥ chooses you! Dan kala cinta itu datang..don't be afraid to grab it ..embrace it..
Perbedaan..aaah..kenapa manusia selalu mempermasalahkan perbedaan?apa terlalu takut menghadapi sesuatu yg berbeda? Aneh,karena manusia pd dasarnya diciptakan berbeda beda...dr rambut,wajah,tangan,semuanya beda..apalagi agama,suku,ras,budaya..
Kalau semuanya sama,alangkah membosankannya dunia ini? Masa 1 globe dunia ini sama semua? God is more creative than that!! So kenapa kita mengkotakan manusia dng perbedaan itu? Bule atau ngga bule,putih,hitam,keriting,sipit,belo..hey,when u ♥ someone..none of those things matter!!
And when u ♥ someone,u accept them as they are..as a whole..masa lalu nya,masa sekarangnya,masa depannya..
Semua orang punya masa lalu..that's the nature of life.mengetahui dan menerima semua masa itu secara jujur dan utuh..now that's great ♥..cos u don't wanna ♥ someone n have things to hide..
I have nothing to hide about my past..all I know I've been through the up n down of life..gw membuat kesalahan,ya..pasti..manusia mana yg ga pernah salah..bur all that makes me the person I am today..dan jujur..I wouldn't change a single thing about my life! The good n the bad..
Begitu juga dng my other half...I take him..and I ♥ him as a whole..as a person that is so amazing that I got to know..and everyday I get to ♥ more n admire more (aduuuuh mulai berkaca2 niiii) he's the most loving,protective person ..and I'm happy n proud to be his wife..saya terima masa lalu nya,masa sekarangnya dan masa depannya yg saya ingin kita habiskan bersama sampai mati.
Kalau memang kita tdk bicara banyak soal siapa dia ..its simply because yg menjalani hubungan ini adalah hanya 2 orang...saya dan dia. Tidak ada perlunya kita mengumbar apapun kepada siapapun.he's a verry private person n I have to respect that.
Kalau utk bbrp pihak itu dianggap sbg 'merahasiakan sesuatu' saya anggap itu berasal dr orang2 yg berpikiran sempit.
Dan bila juga ini dilihat oleh bbrp pihak bahwa ada motivasi lain (selain pure rasa cinta) bahwa kami memilih satu sama lain..saya hanya bisa berpikir bahwa orang itu belum pernah jatuh cinta yg sebenar-benarnya.hahahha...
Cinta sebenar..menrt saya..tiddak kenal rumus..ngga ada aturan ..ngga kenal waktu..ngga kenal batasan..jd kalau ada yg mengkotakkan bahwa ini seharusnya begini..seharusnya begitu...mempermasalahkan masa lalu dan juga status...hahaha saya bener2 berharap that 1 day you'll fall in ♥ then u know all ur 'theories' are wrong!!
Cinta ngga kenal teori,ga kenal batas ruang dan waktu,bs terjadi dimana saja,kapan saja..wheather u ready or not..
And I thank my dearest God that He gave me that great ♥ at this stage of my life. Yes,I've been looking for it for years ..dan mungkin sempat berpikir..mungkin there's no such thing for me (makanya terciptalah lagu Mencari Cinta Sejati dan Untuk Siapa)
Tapi ternyata Semua akan indah pada Waktunya ...dan gw sangat bersyukur bahwa waktu yg diijinkan Tuhan utk datangnya cinta ini adalah sekarang.saat gw lebih siap,lebih dewasa,lebih sabar,lebih matang...
Honestly..kalau gw ngotot dan memaksakan cinta..I would've screwed it up long time ago..mungkin jg cinta nya blm dikasih Tuhan lbh awal karena Tuhan lihat gw belum siap..dan yg paling penting...saat gw siap..gw ditunjukan orang yg tepat.. :)
Inti dr semuanya..I believe..trully believe..that Everything Happens For a Reason...ngga ada yg namanya kebetulan..semua ada alasannya..its Faith..
Yg kita ber2 hadapi selama masa pacaran dan pertunangan tidak mudah.banyak halangan dan cobaan,perkataan orang dsb..tp it only makes us grow closer n stronger together..he's my rock..and I know no matter what happens he'll always be on my side.
I trully hope u all will find ur great ♥..it really is an amazing thing I believe there's ♥ for each n everyone..don't force ♥..and there's no other thing that matters..but L♥VE
I ♥ u all,ShantyAddicts..
Many many kisses
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Cinta ngga kenal teori,ga kenal batas ruang dan waktu,bs terjadi dimana saja,kapan saja..wheather u ready or not.."
It's true mba shanty but my mom once said that we have to lead our
but i'm happy for you
Btw, selamat ya Teh, smoga semua berjalan lancar ^_^
"saya bener2 berharap that 1 day you'll fall in ♥ then u know all ur 'theories' are wrong!!"
Congrats for your engagement, hope this love will last for you and your man..
I admire you as a person, who had been so tough as a rock and also been gentle as a silk. There's no such thing called a formula of love, as you said ...." love choises you.." that the uniqely of love and why the differences also made us such lovely uniqe being.
Keep on Rocking girl!!!!
Luv u